This might be a question that only my guys can answer.  I think we as women can TRY but I think they hold the key on this one.

An ex-boyfriend of mine called and said “Hey, I’m coming to town, you should really give me some pussy while I’m there”.    *Scratches head (MINE)*….Hmmm, I did mention that he was in EX right??  Just checking.  So I asked him why I “should” and he responded “It’s not like I’ve never had it, you need to quit bein so mean”.    Right.

Okay, so he and I had managed to maintain a friendly relationship since our break up but he started me thinking.  He really said that with some sense of entitlement in his voice.  Why is it that so many men think once they have had sex with a woman that she’s an open door with a broken hinge, able to be opened whenever he’s ready without resistance?

I understand that women and men view sex very differently.  I throw it in there with the relationship thing and sex is a part of something different and men, apparently are not trying to have to whole meal, they wanna order their shit a la carte!

On further thought, maybe some women DO think the same way and since I don’t I am not aware of it so I guess  the question of the day is:

Once you have had sex with someone, do you think as long as you all are on good terms they should let you go back “just cause”?